PRS Probates List

Hi everyone, this is the list of girls who have made it through 2 interviews and have been chosen to become a PRS probate.

1. Siti Sarah bt. Omar 1 Damai

2. Nurul Syawani bt. Shaffi 1 Fasih

3. Siti Hajar bt. Mohsin 1 Cekap

4. Shankari Jeyaseelan 1 Amanah

5. Aishwarya Adaikalaraj 1 Bakti

6. Raihanah bt. Muhd. Navil 1 Gigih

7. Amrit Agastia 1 Gigih

8. KavishaShree VijayaKumar 1 Fasih

9. Wan Nur Marissa bt. Wan Muhd. Kamal 1 Fasih

10. Nurul Syahirah bt. Aznizam 1 Erat

11. Dharsilla Nisa bt. Mohd. Manimaran 1 Fasih

12.Adrina Sofea Masri 1 Amanah

13. Aisyah Elisya bt. Mohd. Fadzli 3 bakti

14. Noor Fara Idayu bt. Abdullah 3 Fasih

15. Anis Suhaili bt. Suhaimi 3 Fasih

16. Nur Eliyana bt. Azizi 3 Bakti

17. Shahirah bt. Abd. Shukor 4 Sains Amanah

18. Nor Elyana bt. Nor Badli 4 Sains Amanah

19. Amirah Akhyar bt. Haziman 4 Sains Amanah

20. Zaimah bt. Abu Zarim 4 Sains Bakti

21. Deneesha Raveendran 4 Sains Damai

To those of you who got in, congratulations! Do come for your first PRS meeting this as a PRS probate this Friday. The details will be up on the board by Wednesday.

And for those of you who didn’t make it this year, don’t be sad and don’t worry! 2011 is always there, and don’t give up! We hope to see you again next year.

- Latifah.

Masalah

"Help me, I ada suka 1 lelaki ni, but dia lagi tua daripada I. I suka dia sebab dia handsome, cute, hot, cool, and banyak lagi.

Help me, macam mana I nak tarik perhatian dia. I tak nak you cakap pasal my age yang still young. Just help me macam mana nak dapatkan dia as boyfriend. Please!"

Dear friend,

At this age we really think that you should be focused on your studies and being a teenager. Our teenage years cannot be repeated ever again, so we have to make the most of it now. Don’t trouble yourself at this age with having a boyfriend because he will most likely cause disruption.

If you still want a boyfriend, I think you should go for someone who is more your age. That way you can talk of all the things that you both are going through together. This means that you are on the same wavelength with each other and you understand each other. It is even better if that someone influences you positively like in studies. Always remember to take care of yourself whenever you are with a boy.

Also, another thing is the reason to why you like this guy is because he is handsome, cute, hot and cool? In choosing someone to be our boyfriend, a good heart, attitude and personality is very important. Looks can be deceiving and don’t ever judge a book by its cover.

Love,

PRS SRI AMAN

Problems

"One of my friend has fallen in love. I am scared if her marks will drop."

Dear Friend,

It's very thoughtful that you care about your friend. :)
First things first, be a good friend and tell her that studies are much more important than having a boyfriend. I understand that we all want to be in love and have someone special in our lives but you have to tell her that parents and studies are more important. If she insists on having a boyfriend, its okay. What you have to do is guide her through her studies. Keep on reminding her to never neglect her studies especially when a major exam is near. Moreover, if her marks dropped, make her realize the main problem to why her marks dropped. If her boyfriend is taking too much of her time, tell her that it is time to focus on her education. Remind her HOW IMPORTANT good education is for her future. Sometimes the key is just time management and a lot of effort and focus. If this problem persists, perhaps you should ask her to see the school counsellor or a PRS.

Love,
PRS SRI AMAN

Masalah

"Saya tertekan antara nak pilih sains tulen ke akaun selepas PMR. Ayah saya nak saya pilih sains tulen tapi saya takut saya tidak boleh skor dalam pelajaran itu. Mak kata pilih apa yang kamu nak jangan ikut ayah tetapi saya kesian ayah. Dalam dilema. Tolong."

Kepada sahabatku,

Pertama sekali, anda tak perlu risau kerana pada masa tingkatan 4 nanti, anda akan diberi pengenalan kepada semua matapelajaran sains tulen. Nasihat kami adalah, cuba anda mengambil aliran sains tulen dahulu. Kalau awal-awal anda rasa tak boleh bertahan, anda boleh minta daripada guru untuk keluar daripada aliran itu dan mencuba aliran akaun.

Seterusnya, ibu bapa anda memang inginkan yang terbaik buat anda. Sekiranya anda mengambil aliran sains tulen, tetapi markah anda tidak memberangsangkan, bagaimana anda nak menggembirakan hati ayah dan ibu? Sekiranya anda memilih aliran akaun, tunjukkan kepada ayah anda yang anda benar-benar ingin memasuki aliran akaun. Belajar bersungguh-sungguh dan buktikan kepada ayah anda. Saya yakin bahawa ayah anda tidak akan kecewa, dia pasti akan lebih bangga dengan kamu sekiranya kamu memperoleh markah cemerlang. Yang lebih penting, pilihlah matapelajaran yang anda minati dan sesuai dengan cita-cita anda.

Daripada,
PRS SRI AMAN

Problems

"My best friend sometimes annoy me. She is not my old best friend anymore ... T_T"

Dear Friend,

There is no reason for you to give up on your best friend. Why do you find her annoying? Did she hurt your feelings? Try to talk it out with her because when you identify the problem, then you can find the solution. When you say that she's not your best friend anymore, do you mean she's changed or that you both grew apart?

If you both grew apart, try to rekindle the friendship again. Give her a call, talk to her during recess, just don't stop the contact.

If you mean she's changed, if it's for the better, stay and support her. But, if it's for the worst, then we suggest you to find a much better influence in your life. Best friends are people who are meant to be there for you at bad times and good times. If she can't do that, look for some other good friends.

Write to us again if you're still confused and be more specific next time. :)
We help you help yourselves.

Love,
PRS SRI AMAN

Problems

"Dear PRS,
My sisters everytime do some wrong! My mother will think that I do it, what am I supposed to do? I don't like this."

Dear Friend,

Sisters are just like that, they like to get their other sisters or brothers in trouble. One thing you should do is, try not to provoke your sister. Don't purposely do something just to irritate her because that will make her want to strike back. Secondly, in a situation, explain to your mother calmly what happened. I'm sure that your mom will understand. Also, you have to remember that your sisters are your family and you will tend to get on each other's nerve. It's only a certain phase that your sisters are going through and in a few more years, I'm sure you will be BFF. Just chill and be patient.

Love,
PRS SRI AMAN

Problems

"We have this friend. She likes to steal and also lie to people. She betrayed us all. She gave us this "surat", and then she asks us to forgive her. But, we're not sure to forgive her or not. She stole RM5 from 18 people and she hasn't give it back to us yet. She is also picked for PRS."

Dear Friend,

Okay, let's take this step by step. Tell your friend that in order to be forgiven, she must correct to the people that she has wronged. She must replace each and everyone of the 18 people's RM5. Then, once she has done that you and your friends' should find some room in your heart to forgive her. Try to understand her situation, maybe she did it out of desperation. Nevertheless, we must first make her realize of her mistake and then it's time to forgive and forget.

And about her being picked for PRS, we hope that if she gets into PRS, she will learn to change and become a much better person.

Love,
PRS SRI AMAN

Problems

"Heyy, I just started Form 1 this year and since I started school, I had to do a lot of homework and I have no time to do other activities. So what should I do?"

Dear Friend,

The first thing you should do is to make a study schedule/timetable. If you feel like you can't do it alone, then ask an adult or someone older to help you. This should help you to organize your time better. You can also do your homework in groups, or by yourself after school while waiting for extra-curricular activities to start. It is also a good idea to ask tutors to help you.

Love,
PRS SRI AMAN

Problems

"Sometimes, people tell me that my friend lie and stole people money... so when I know about this thing I was just like don't know to trust who ... So when I got to know that she stole somebody money ... So what should I do?? I'm confused ..."

Dear Friend,

We understand what a difficult situation you're in, and you feel like you don't know who to trust. Don't listen to hearsay so much. You should know your friend better than these other people, so I don't think you should do anything until you know for sure that your friend has been stealing people's money. When you know for sure, you should advise her to stop what she's doing now because it can get her into greater trouble if the habit continues. If she doesn't stop, then you should tell a trusted adult what is going on. Good luck. :)

Love,
PRS SRI AMAN

Problems

"Hi! I'm a desperate girl!I have a problem with my boyfriend! He stop calling me and last time i went grocery shopping at Jusco I saw him with another girl! Can you help me? What should I do? :) Love you PRSes. xoxo"

Dear Friend,

Don't worry too much about him. I think it's obvious that your boyfriend is not taking you or your relationship with him seriously. Your best bet is to call him yourself or approach him and ask him exactly what is going on. If he is not willing to talk to you about this, then he is not worth your time. Instead you should use your precious time to focus on your studies, as studying will benefit you more than worrying about your boyfriend will at your age. Give him a chance to explain his actions. If his reasons are not valid, then you should move on. Also, don't be desperate, life is not all about boys you know. :)

Love,
PRS SRI AMAN

Problems

"I have a problem coming early to school. My parents said that I can go to school late but the prefects always punish me! WTH? Help me! PLS!"

Dear Friend,

Truthfully, we have a slight trouble understanding your problem. Are you saying that YOU have trouble coming to school early? OR are you saying that your PARENTS make you late to school? We'll answer both situations.

If YOU have trouble coming to school early, I suggest you to do this.

• Set up your alarm half an hour earlier, so you will always have extra time
• Sleep early so you'll wake up easier
  
• Pack your bags, files, PJK clothes and other stuff the night before
• Ask somebody like your family member to help wake you up
• Drag yourself to the toilet and splash cold water on your face, that would really wake you up!

If you are saying that your PARENTS make you late to school, I suggest you to do this.

• Tell your parents of what punishment your would receive at school if you come late
• Knock on their door early in the morning, because even parents have problem waking up too sometimes
• Remind your parents of how it will affect your school performance if you come to school late

At the end of the day, it's all just discipline. You must train yourself to wake up early and be punctual. If you don't make a habit of being punctual now, it will effect you in the future when in college and workplace. If everyone can do it, so can you! Good luck! :)

Love,
PRS SRI AMAN

Masalah

"PRS, saya dari kelas _____, saya telah mendapat 2A3B. Waktu Maths, saya tidak faham apa yang diajar. Malah, cikgu itu merendahkan saya dan kawan yang juga mendapat 2A. Kami rasa tidak layak bersekolah di Sri Aman. Tolonglah saya ..."

Kepada sahabatku,

Terima kasih kerana mengutarakan satu isu yang kerap berlaku. Pertama sekali, tidak ada seseorang pun yang tidak layak ke sekolah ini. Perkara ini pernah dinyatakan oleh pengetua kita sendiri. Sekolah ini bukan hanya mementingkan jumlah A yang anda peroleh, tetapi kami ingin pelajar yang mempunyai semangat untuk belajar dan mempunyai sikap yang baik. Saya berpendapat bahawa anda memiliki kedua-dua kriteria tersebut. Janganlah berputus asa dengan kritikan cikgu. Cikgu hanya ingin kamu berjaya dalam kehidupan. Anda dan rakan-rakan anda sudah lebih besar dan zaman persekolahan ini hanya akan bertambah sukar. Anda haruslah berusaha dengan lebih keras. Oleh itu, anggaplah keputusan UPSR anda itu sebagai titik tolak untuk lebih maju lagi. Tahun lepas telahpun berlalu, tahun ini tahun yang baru. Kuatkanlah semangat anda.

Daripada,
PRS SRI AMAN

Problems

"Hey guys, I've got like a problem. U know that my friend and my other friend is fighting like cats and dogs. And they come and complain it to me. I don't know what to do. And they always say they wished they have never met each other. They used to be BFF 4 life. I hope you can solve my problem."

Dear Friend,

As a friend that they trust you should try and talk it out with the both of them. It is not worth ruining a great friendship like they have. Remind them of the good moments that they had before this BIG fight. Make them remember how wonderful this friendship was. Try your best to persuade them to take things slow. If they still don't want to be friends, try to make new friends and break out of their shell.

Love,
PRS SRI AMAN

Problems

"I'm having problems with my boyfriend. He just told me that he has been smoking yesterday and we've been going out 5 months plus. How can I trust him again? He always lies."

Dear Friend,

Be the best friend and try to make him quit smoking. Tell him how much you despise smoking. If he doesn't alter his behaviour, he is not worth investing your energy in. Find someone who will treat you with dignity and respect. Besides that, if he can lie about smoking, he can lie about more things other than just smoking. His lying behaviour is designed to bring you down, and you deserve better. We hope we helped you. :)

Love,
PRS SRI AMAN

Problems

"I have a friend that I met last year. We were so close until we had a big fight. Beginning of the school year, we talk like usual, but suddenly the next week, the awkward silence begins, until now. Should I end our friendship?"

Dear Friend,

No friendship is meant to be ended. It seems like there is some sort of misunderstanding between you both. This is due to lack of communication. Although, we're not sure what was the big fight all about, it is not worth ruining your friendship. Try calling or talking to her. Identify the cause of this tension and what to do next. That's the best way to solve an argument. Also, never give up on your friends.

Love,
PRS SRI AMAN