Masalah

"Saya selalu di marah oleh cikgu PJK saya. Dia sering memalukan saya di depan kawan sekelas dengan saya. Saya sangat stress!"

Kepada sahabatku,

Saya rasa anda perlu bertanya kepada guru PJK anda dimana kesalahan anda kerana guru tidak akan memarahi murid jikalau murid itu tidak membuat kesilapan atau salah. Selain itu, anda perlu mencuba membuktikan kepada guru anda bahawa anda bukan seperti apa yang guru anda katakan. Jika anda masih malu untuk bertanya kepada guru anda, anda bolehlah berjumpa dengan kaunselor atau ahli PRS.

Daripada,

PRS Sri Aman

Problems

"Dear PRS, I have a problem here and i need an explanation. I have 3 friends, and only one of them is my best friend but the other 2 gets so jealous because i am always with my best friend. What should i do?"

Dear friend,

A friendship is for everyone to enjoy and appreciate. A true friend will not feel jealous of anything. Try talking to all of them and solve the problem. I am a senior, and i have gone through all these friendship problems, but later you'll realize that any friendship should not be ended because of silly and immature things. Try talking it out because maybe the problem is due to miscommunication.

Love,

PRS Sri Aman.

Masalah

"Boyfriend aku control aku sangat. Bukannya aku tak suka dia, tapi rimas lah. Lepas tu, dia skandal dengan kawan aku. Aku tak tau nak buat apa, aku sayang dekat boyfriend aku, tapi aku tak nak hilang member aku jugak."

Kepada sahabatku,

Mempunyai teman lelaki tidak salah tetapi anda perlu ingat bahawa anda masih muda, dan perkara yang penting sekarang adalah menumpukan perhatian kepada pelajaran dan aktiviti sekolah. Anda ada banyak masa lagi untuk bercinta. Bila masa itu sampai, anda akan tahu untuk memilih teman lelaki yang setia dan tidak membuat anda berasa rimas. Anda juga perlu menasihati rakan anda supaya melakukan perkara yang sama dan jangan membazir masa yang ada sewaktu muda ini.

Daripada,

PRS Sri Aman

Masalah

"Assalamualaikum PRS, saya nak cadangan daripada PRS untuk saya jaga badan supaya saya kurus! Saya nak diri saya seperti orang lain. PRS boleh tak berikan saya jadual pemakanan atau lain-lain cara untuk saya menjadi sihat dan kurus seperti orang lain? Terima kasih."

Waalaikumussalam sahabatku,

Bukan anda seorang sahaja yang menghadapi masalah ini tetapi ramai remaja yang ingin menjadi kurus. Anda perlulah menetapkan jadual pemakanan yang betul dan lebihkan pengambilan makanan yang sihat seperti sayur dan buah-buahan. Jangan buat perkara yang drastik seperti diet berlebihan, tetapi kerapkan bersenam. Elakkan makanan ringan dan pengambilan snek pada waktu lewat malam. Semoga berjaya!

Daripada,

PRS Sri Aman

Problems

"I used to be very hyper and had very nice friends but lately i realized that if i don't talk to my friends, they won't talk to me. Sometimes, they would ignore me. Please help me. I really don't feel like talking to them because they will think i am too sensitive."

Dear friends,

It's normal for people to change through time. What you are experiencing might be different than your friends. Probably, you are maturing faster than the rest. It isn't a bad thing, but certain times you will get really sensitive over a small matter. So i suggest that you calm yourself down before talking to your friends. If you don't feel like talking to them, just keep to yourself for a while. Take time to miss your friends and they will miss you too, so the next time you meet up with them, you will have a lot of things to say to each other.

Love,

PRS Sri Aman

Masalah

"Saya ada seorang kawan yang sangat hipokrit. Dia suka menunjuk-nunjuk pandai! Dia bajet lawa dan sekarang dia tinggalkan semua kawan dia. Beliau juga terlalu obses dengan tubuh badanyya yang kurus seperti memerli orang yang gemuk. Plus, she macam say she like, already 'sedar diri' and found tuhan and she like, menunjuk-nunjuk as if we bawah dia."

Kepada sahabatku,

Jikalau anda betul-betul kawan dia, anda akan cuba memberitahu dia tentang masalah dengan cara yang terbaik. Jangan lupa untuk ingatkan dia bahawa anda sayangkan dia sebagai kawan. Cubalah nasihatkan kawan anda ini supaya dia tidak melanjutkan perangainya yang suka menunjuk-nunjuk itu.

Daripada,

PRS Sri Aman

Problems

"This problem keeps bugging me although I try to ignore it. The problem is, I'm having some argument with my friend, EX-BESTFRIEND. We did misunderstood with each other which the point is, I don't really get the problem. If I did hurt her feelings, I ask her to give me one more chance that day. But, she ignore my question and try to avoid me. If she didn't forgive me, should I do the same too or should (still) friends with her in different way?"

Dear Friend,

What happened between you and your friend is something that happens everyday. If you don't understand the problem between you and your friend, you should ask her for her point of view on the problem and not ask for another chance without resolving the issue. Give her time to realise that you are making an effort to make this friendship work. In the meantime, you shouldn't think about not forgiving her and ending your friendship. Treat her the way you want to be treated and who knows, your friendship might become stronger that it was before. Friendship works both ways with both parties, give and take.

Love,
PRS SRI AMAN

Problems

"I'm a Form 3 student, yeah I know PMR. I have to stayback nearly every day because of sports, club and more. Once I get home, I only have one to two hours only for resting. After that, I've to go to tuition. Then, do my homework, normally at eleven, I go to bed. The next morning I am so damn tired in class, it's kind of hard to focus because I felt sleepy and tired. What I am supposed to do?"

Dear Friend,

I have to admit that the school schedule is pretty tight but it is for your own good. You should find a method that suits yourself for example a power nap. You sleep for 15 minutes and wake up to continue your homework. To maximise your resting time at home, try to finish your homework in school. Even five minutes between every period is good enough. Try your best to focus in class and avoid unnecessary chatting in class when the teacher is teaching. The more you pay attention in class, the less time you have to spend on revision at home. Last but not least, excercise! It helps one to focus and it helps you to feel more energised.

Love,
PRS SRI AMAN

Masalah

"Form 3's banyak sangat homework! I don't even have time to finish it. Pagi, sekolah, petang, koko, malam, tuition. And even if I do finish my h/w, I don't even have time to go online."

Dear Friend,

Seeing as this has become a problem, you should consult someone older who can help you to make a study timetable to better organize your time. Make sure you stick to the timetable. Learn to prioritize, start with which homework you have to hand in first. Also, seeing as going online is not a priority at the moment you should consider only going online on weekends.

Love,
PRS SRI AMAN

Masalah

"Oh PRS, masalah I hari nie adalah, I suka someone nie, senang dipanggil ______. Tpi die tk thu. Haha. Tpi die masih ingat I walaupun last meet last year. So, adakah patut I bgthu dia yg I suka dia? Oh, sngt malu. ;')"

Kepada sahabatku,

Saya rasa kamu patut mengenali lelaki ini dengan lebih mendalam sebelum memberitahu dia yang kamu suka dia. Mungkin lelaki itu tidak seperti tanggapan anda dan mana tahu dia mungkin berubah perangai daripada tahun lalu. Walaubagaimanapun, jangan lupakan pelajaran dan jangan terlalu stres tentang perkara ini.

Daripada,
PRS SRI AMAN

School Spirit Week photos

Riyana giving a speech on School Spirit Week.

Su Ann and Jen Yeen as the President and Vice President of Interact Club Sri Aman, giving a speech about School Spirit Week.

Watching the School Spirit Week video presentation.

Pn Alainal giving a speech to her beloved Sri Aman students.

D'starz girls pumping up the SA spirit!

We even got ice creams!

Nima Nzhh

Pelancaran Peti Suara Hati

Latifah and Riyana, giving a speech about 'Peti Suara Hati' and showing the video presentation (probably will be put up on the blog, soon).

Pn Alainal putting in the first ever letter.

'Peti Suara Hati' balloon.

Will put up more pictures of 'Peti Suara Hati' soon,

Nima Nzhh

Problems

"There are two people in my class who are so annoying, because they talk a lot in class. So, when the teacher is teaching, they like to ask the teacher silly questions. The entire class hates them."

Dear friend,

Hate is a pretty strong word, don't you think? These two girls enjoy talking a lot and are always disrupting the class because they never pay attention, so why not tell them how you feel? Explain to them how their constant chatting is making it hard for you and the rest of the class to focus on the lesson, and when they ask silly questions, it slows everyone down. Talk to them nicely and don't hate them as they might not be aware of how their behaviour annoys and affects others.

Love,

PRS Sri Aman

Problems

"I have a big problem. I have 3 best friends, who are all fighting amongst each other to be friends with me. What should i do?"

Dear friend,

As you have said it yourself; these three girls are your best friends. Therefore, there should be no reason for them to fight over you in order to be your friend. Include each other in all your plans and don't make anyone feel left out. Be equally nice to all of them, and sooner or later, the four of you will forge a friendship that will last a lifetime.

Love,

PRS Sri Aman

Problems

"I have a 'friend' in class. She is very stuck up and disturbs the class a lot. For example, a teacher gives us a question and let's say she'll just say "Oh teacher, I know." every time. She's also very stingy and likes to snatch things away. She is so stuck up. Please help."

Dear friend,

Firstly, don't treat her the same way. Maybe, all she needs are humble friends. Why don't you try telling her how her behaviour makes you and your classmates feel without being too harsh, and give her the chance to change herself. Maybe you could also politely ask her to give other classmates a chance to answer the questions that your teacher asks. Befriend your classmates, and if it doesn't work, try telling the subject teacher how you feel about her constant brown-nosing.

Love,

PRS Sri Aman